Sunday, June 17, 2018

Father's Day Special: Real Life Superhero

The most unforgettable life lesson I learned from my father is that it is feasible but always challenging. It is about dreaming big and being optimistic that I will make it with all my energy and power. I wish to have been given powers like superheroes and live an extraordinary life, just like when I was a kid who used to daydream about holding a ball of fire in my hands or reading someone's mind. 

As a child, the idea of being a superhero was not just a delusion, but a source of genuine wonder and inspiration. It was a magical escape from reality, a testament to the power of creative imagination. Even as adults, we may find ourselves yearning for that same sense of wonder, that same escape from the trials and tribulations of everyday life. 


As a grown-up man, things never get easy. Sometimes, I fantasize about situations if I find living in the real world hard. If only I was wealthy enough not to work hard for a living and just journey to places whenever I want. Give away money to the less privileged to lessen their burden of suffering. However, such thoughts are just a fantasy. Going back to the real world, I need to work hard to earn for myself so I can live decently, travel to places with just enough money, and give even a little amount to the needy. I realized that I don't need to fulfill my dreams just by having a fantasy world in my thoughts. I should escape from the troubled thoughts and start living the kind of life that I have.

Growing up with the right mindset and the right action is a challenge. But there is one superhero whom I believe would rescue and be willing to give a little power, and that is a Father. He is not just a figure of authority, but a source of strength and wisdom. He is there to push us when we feel weak, when we feel unappreciated, when we feel undervalued, and when we feel powerless. My Father would care to give his precious advice about life. He is full of wisdom and inspires me to exert more energy to face all the challenges. 

I may encounter difficulties in life, but I should be living fearlessly. I have to stand tall and ready to face all the battles. Sometimes, I feel like quitting, but specific energy pushes me to move forward. I need to slow down, take a break for a moment, and come back with clear thoughts and a positive spirit. I thank my father for passing on the positive virtues worth emulating. I may not have accomplished much in life as he does. However, a dose of positivity would help me to achieve success.

Looking back, about 5 years ago, I wrote about Father's Day Special: Leading The Way, and the message is about willpower and having a fighting spirit. Still relevant in today's time and will serve as a guide in living a better life. I can make my dreams come true despite not being a superhero. I may not have tremendous power, but I should remain optimistic that I can handle life with all my energy and power. This power is not imagined, but it's a real power that comes from the heart and mind, a power of resilience, determination, and the ability to overcome challenges. That's my weapon... that is my power. 

Today, we honor and thank our Father for raising us well and guiding us in living our lives. Like a compass, you pointed out the right way, and you cheered us up when we arrived at the destination. We are forever grateful for the good life you dreamed for us, for the lessons you taught us, and for the love and support you've always given. We wish you the better life you deserve, and we hope to make you proud. 

© 2018 Del Cusay

Tuesday, May 29, 2018

Memories of Summer 2018


There's a unique joy that only summer can bring. While some may find the heat oppressive, for others, it's a season of pure bliss. As February draws to a close, the anticipation of summer's arrival fills us with excitement. It's a time for out-of-town adventures, or even a simple staycation to unwind and recharge. The most delightful moments of the year are often spent at the beach, a waterfall, a river, or a mountain resort, seeking relief from the intense heat.

The summer of 2018 will always be remembered for the journeys we took. No matter how far the destination, the beauty of the scenery always captivated us. The gentle breeze, the allure of the ocean, the breathtaking sunrise in the east, and the stunning sunset in the west all stirred our spirits. It's in these moments, when we're surrounded by the wonders of nature, that we experience a happiness that's truly unforgettable.

There's a feeling of great relief and a sense of renewal for even a short while once we temporarily escape from the everyday work. Natural healing cleanses and purifies us to make us complete and ready to face a more complex world with calmness and peace. I always believe that our body always finds its way to healing itself. It's as if our soul wanders around, and our physical body brings us somewhere. Our soulful desire makes us live our purpose to stop for a while and take a deep breath as we enjoy the precious moment.

Summer Food Bazaar at Bonifacio High Street

Summertime is about enjoying the little things that matter. We enjoy being outdoors and experiencing life on the street. We want food accompanied by upbeat music. We appreciate the vibrant and positive energy that gives us a sense of accomplishment as we reflect on our victorious plans and actions. We made it! We succeeded! and we express our gratitude for it.

Summer is a time for preservation and revitalization, a much-needed pause before the rainy season. We bask in the sun, returning home with renewed gratitude and peace. It's during these travels that we often come to realize the importance of work-life balance. We deserve these breaks and these opportunities to relieve stress and burnout. And the reward? A deeper appreciation for a life well-lived. 

© 2018 Del Cusay



Sunday, May 13, 2018

Mother's Day Special: Unconditional Love

A Mother's love is not just a fleeting emotion, but a steadfast commitment that transcends time and circumstance. It's a duty of motherhood and a lifelong promise. From our earliest days, when we were most vulnerable, we would cry and cling to our mother, seeking comfort and safety. She watches over us as we grow, ensuring we can stand tall in our world.

Today, we celebrate Mother's Day, a celebration of life; we are here in this world because of her and continue to live better with her undying love and support. Mother's Day Special: A Celebration of Love is not just a one-day celebration. It is to be remembered and celebrated at any time of the year whenever we feel the need to appreciate them and make them feel special. We may not be showing off how deeply we love them, but somehow, we get to make them feel good with our sweet gestures.  



Distance may not become a hindrance in showing our love to our mother. She is there to listen when we feel weak or frightened. She assured us that everything would be fine and we would keep fighting. The world is harsh, and we need to become a fighter in the real world. Mother's Day Special: Compassionate Care is a way of raising us to become better people and realize our purpose in our community. We are taught never to give up easily, but a victory comes our way whenever we feel lost. We just need to be prepared to accept and live it wholeheartedly. Through their compassionate care, our mothers shaped us into the firm, resilient individuals we are today.

Today, some children may not have a biological mother by their side, but they have someone who has given them hope and stood up to be their mother. This is a testament to the power of unconditional love. These children are blessed to have a second mother who guides and supports them as they grow. Looking back on their lives, they will honor this second mother for raising them well and giving them a life worth living. This is a celebration of all mothers, biological or not, who play a vital role in our lives. 

Our mothers are our heroes, our fighters, and our defenders! They will always protect and love us, and we give them back by following them because mothers know what suits their kids. We honor and give them thanks. To our mothers, we pray they have more strength and power to live in this world and continue loving us children today and forever. We are forever grateful for their love and sacrifices, which we can never fully repay but always deeply appreciate.

© 2018 Del Cusay