Friday, January 1, 2016

New Year 2016: A New Beginning


What an incredible year 2015! This might be the most straightforward statement of what I've been through for the previous year. There were ups and downs, but I was still able to conquer challenges and reach another milestone in life. 2015 brought me to another chapter of extraordinary living, where I stretched myself beyond my limits.

When I've been to places where my thoughts have brought me, it has been a fascinating journey. It is indeed a law of attraction that works whenever I need it. Years ago, when I started to believe that we become what we think, I learned to practice and incorporate this belief regularly to achieve whatever goals I desire. 

Reflecting on my journey, I realize that if I had believed in the power of attraction earlier, I could have achieved even more. This year, I've ticked off several goals from my list, with others well on their way to becoming reality. Life has taken on a magical quality, and with creativity and passion, I've experienced an unprecedented turning point. 

Embracing tough decisions has been a catalyst for change, leading to a fulfilling transformation. After a long period of service, I'm now embarking on a new adventure with a team of vibrant, confident individuals, all striving for a new level of success. 

The previous chapter has always been challenging; hence, it was full of challenges that made me a better person. I've been polished like a gem—a precious one that illuminates and sparkles. It is a product of enlightenment to a certain level and my deepest gratitude to the master of life that I once knew. 

Every lesson learned becomes a stepping stone to the next chapter. Each experience, when approached with honor and dignity, holds significance and merit. Gratitude for past successes paves the way for more abundance and blessings, a truth I hold dear. 

Life isn't always about reaching the pinnacle of happiness and success. There have been times when circumstances beyond my control have thrown me off course. But these experiences have taught me the value of resilience and the importance of moving forward. Life's challenges may be like hard rocks, but they can be transformed into polished, refined stones with the right mindset. 

It's genuinely fantastic to face obstacles toward success. It takes passion, courage, and desire to make it. Along the way, there are rough roads and intersections that will eventually lead in the right direction. It may seem like a very challenging year, but with perseverance, I surpass the trials that will launch a newer, more extraordinary version. 

© 2015 Del Cusay

Friday, December 25, 2015

Christmas in Our Hearts 2015: A Blissful Journey


Christmas, the most anticipated and enchanting season, is a time to create cherished memories with our dear ones. It's a season of shared laughter and smiles, and sometimes, a time to lend a comforting shoulder to those in sorrow.

Christmas celebrations of the past were filled with joy and left an indelible mark. Even when I was away from my home country, I always felt a strong sense of connection and love. The Filipino way of celebrating, though simple, truly embodies the spirit of Christmas, leaving a lasting impression on our hearts.

It was exactly four years ago that I shared thoughts about the holiday season. I have witnessed different cultures, and how they celebrate Christmas is fantastic. Christmas in Our Hearts 2011 brought good memories with those I've been with. It was like having fun in a wonderland, and it felt like there was no tomorrow.

Christmas 2012 was meaningful since I celebrated it with my family. Since I missed the 2011 celebration, I cherished our time together. I may not be home for Christmas in 2013, so this is worth reminiscing about. Christmas in Our Hearts 2012 was full of fun and excitement. Spending time together with my family is bliss.

Christmas celebration in Tagaytay City

Christmas 2013 was a simple celebration; I was away from home. It doesn't matter how far the distance is, as long as I never feel alone and still carry the smile and happiness it brings. It was nice to have shared Christmas traditions and stories, which I cherish. 

Christmas 2014 was celebrated in my hometown together with my family. It was one of the happiest moments since we didn't get the chance to celebrate together every year. It was not as extravagant as previous years' celebrations, but the simplicity and essence of Christmas are remarkable.

In 2015, I am eagerly looking forward to being with my family for Christmas. While it may not hold the same level of excitement as the past years' celebrations, the beauty of Christmas lies in the presence of loved ones and the shared moments with them.

As the year draws closer, I hope we all find healing from old wounds and unpleasant memories. Let's strive to deserve the good things in life and work together towards a common goal: to achieve success and fulfillment and to experience everlasting bliss and peace in our hearts.


© 2015 Del Cusay

Tuesday, April 28, 2015

Kathmandu: The gems and the lost Treasures



On my journey to the Himalayan Kingdom of Nepal, I fell in love with its beautiful landscape and met wonderful, friendly, and kind-hearted people.

In August 2013, in an uncertain moment, I traveled to Kathmandu and cherished the 6-day trip. It was one of the most beautiful experiences in my life to learn about the Nepalese people's culture and traditions.

From the first day of my trip, I imagined the place's glorious past as I passed through the narrow streets with modern and centuries-old architecture—evidence of Nepal's rich heritage and culture. I roamed around and bought Kurtas (traditional Nepalese clothing) from different shops, and at the same time, I stopped by coffee shops to awaken my senses and continue the journey.

I was amazed by the view of the Kathmandu Valley from the hotel where I stayed. The mountains surrounding the city and the crowded houses and buildings made of stones and bricks are visible.

On a beautiful morning, as I walk in the old streets, I witness the businesses of the people. It is so simple, yet full of spiritual practices to start the day. They pray and chant to their Gods, using aromatic incense to drive off evil spirits or any form of negativity. I used to burn incense of different scents for my daily prayers and intentions.

On a sunny afternoon, as I walked into the downtown area, I saw the people's simple lifestyles. They are not into buying luxurious things. In fact, they only have a few malls that sell bargain products. There's a huge football field and park with a tall observatory tower from which one can see a panoramic view of the Kathmandu valley.

As I walked down the streets, I saw beautiful natural scenery and some that was man-made. I spent a few hours walking and rejuvenating at the famous lake in the central business area. Beside the lake, there are food stalls in the street selling coffee, tea, and bread; I tasted them to get some energy for a long walk.

Kathmandu is such a peaceful place, and I felt the people's spirituality. There are temples everywhere for them to pray and glorify their Gods. They offer food and burn incense, and there's something more than their religious practices. They care and love people regardless of race and creed. They have happy faces, and they even look like Filipinos. I have witnessed their friendliness and hospitality to tourists. They are very conversant about Nepal's history and heritage and helpful in any way.

Kathmandu is rich in heritage sites that are recognized and protected by UNESCO. A day before I left, I could grab the offer for a day tour of 4 out of 7 UNESCO World Heritage sites. 

I have meditated in the mountainous places of Swayambunath and Pashupatinath, where huge stupas are the center of attraction. I visited the ancient city and Durbar Square in Patan, and it was in that place that I felt that I was on time travel. I sensed that I was transported several centuries back, although I could see and interact with modern people—the locals and foreign tourists—in their everyday clothing, ways, and actions.

On April 25, 2015, it was a tragic moment when the Himalayan Kingdom of Nepal was reported to suffer a strong magnitude earthquake. Kathmandu and its nearby towns, including northern India (Bihar state) and southern China (Tibet region), were heavily devastated and lost thousands of people, including locals and foreigners. The Kathmandu valley was destroyed with thousands of houses and buildings that collapsed, a thousand families became homeless, and a thousand lives were killed.

It saddened me to hear the news as I recalled the beautiful memories I had with the Nepalese people I met and interacted with on the road. I remember enjoying their heritage sites and everything Kathmandu offers. I have learned many things about them and am grateful for the joyful experience.


Now that almost everything was lost, how could they recover from the tragedy? How many of those people I met have died, and how many have survived? How are those playful kids I have interacted with at the park? Life can be unpredictable, and bad things can happen to good people. Yet, in the face of such devastation, the Nepalese people have shown remarkable resilience, a testament to the strength of the human spirit.

At the present time, it is about survival, but a sad fate to innocent lives. You may have met wonderful people, but they might be gone tomorrow. You may have seen impressive structures, but they may have been out of sight tomorrow. Survival is not about religion or spirituality. It is now a way of life.

Nepal is a gem I have found, but now it is a lost treasure. From the magnificent peak of Mount Everest to the serenity of Pokhara and the architectural heritage of Kathmandu, it will take work. Hence, it will take time to stand up and face the world again. They need our help in any way, and once they are well and ready, they will stand up and build up their soulful heritage. It's our responsibility to support them in this journey of recovery.

© 2015 Del Cusay

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